Must Read: DEADLY CLEAN THINGS THAT MUST BE HIDDEN IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

THE DEADLY CLEAN THINGS THAT MUST BE HIDDEN IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

 

Okay as we go deep into words of reality and experience, close your eyes and open your mind, because it’s a mind thing – when you are smarter in the mind then your outside is smart. Infact these below listed points are the main, more might come in as time rolls on – you can add your own points as a comment and the next part of these article would reckon and give credit to you...

Your Weakness: Now let’s not deceive ourselves everyone has a weakness, our weak points. Your weakness could be Jealousy, High desire for adult intimacy, hanging out, your deepest need, and many more needs. The reason here is very simple and basic, when a partner knows your mood spoiler or mood booster, that’s when your partner has your key to make you moody or happy anytime he or she wants, alter your feelings. Let’s pick on Jealousy for example, if you are the jealous type you are the most vulnerable and gullible, that doesn’t mean the writer of the article himself is not very jealous; it’s all about masking and controlling your mood, facial reactions, in the heat of things. Now if you are the jealous type I could easily, make it obvious that an opposite has interest towards me, instantly;  I can make you jealous – to consider yourself “Almost a Loser”, and its same me that caused you bad mood that would come and control your mood prolly make you happy.

Awful Family Opinion: This has to be considered psychologically, the average human being registers the feeling of rejection, doubt, loss, impossibility, and the “No this relationship cannot get to the promise-land feeling”.. at the slight disapproval or attitude your Parent especially, then reluctant response of your older relatives to his “Good evening” greeting. Yes, it’s quite cool if they object a particularly bad behaviour – yes; that’s your homework, remold and make your partner drop that bad habit which is actually not good, or unpleasant company of his for your and his/her own personal good. but gently though.

Financial Stand: Wow this is one of the most argued, why should it be hidden, and at which level of relationship, should it be considered immature, selfish and stupid to hide your financial buoyancy. Well, first this article doesn’t mean be selfish to your partner in terms his/her financial or material needs, but what if we shut our eyes think deep, try to be a gentleman or lady without any boastful or show off attitude and live a good life, instead of distracting our smooth enjoyable love life with our excess financial blessings. A sane man/woamn wouldn’t want to keep his relationship dependent on success of cash target. If that love and feeling is true it SHOULD be true, unconditional.

Regret Over Losing Previous Relationship: Why did I write this on this list, OMG! This is irrelevant, everyone knows this but wait incase you don’t know.. Have you ever let your lips loose control and you suddenly find yourself telling your partner “how much you missed you “ex’. That is utter stupidity, which is beyond personal expression, or opinion. It is personal assassination of the future of your current relationship; now let’s put you in your partner’s shoes. If my partner tells me he/she misses, or regret loss of the previous relationship, the literal undiluted meaning is that HIS?HER TRUE MIND IS NOT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP, and in a situation where her mind is not in our relationship, won’t it be wise for me to find my own true person, before he/she disappoints and flies back to his/her previously failed dreams, leaving me with sudden disappointment. So be watchful of the message, you unconsciously pass, as it would be interpreted with or without sentiments, though that might not mean what your intention was.

Thanks for reading, meditate on these words,. Properly.