Advices which you Should Ignore / Embrace while dating

Please find below some of the advices which
you should ignore while dating.

~Wait for Mr. Right~
If that's the advice you buy into, then be
ready to keep waiting. By the time a woman
hits her third decade, she has had enough time
to get to know herself, what she is looking for
and how to identify red flags. What's the
difference between settling and
compromising? When it comes to marriage,
what can we live with, and what can we live
without? How long does it make sense to hold
out for someone better -who we may never
find, and who may not exist -when we could be
happy with the person right in front of us? It's
okay if you don't find Mr Right (it's a myth, by
the way), go for Mr Okay (if he loves and treats
you with respect, that is).

~Never accept last minute dates~
It's Wednesday afternoon. You have no mid-
week plans yet (except maybe a yoga class).
And the guy you just started dating calls. He
was given passes to a private show of a movie
you really want to watch. But it starts in three
hours. Do you really want him to know you had
no plans?
Won't it seem desperate to accept a last-
minute offer? The idea that a woman shouldn't
accept a last minute date offer is outdated.
While you shouldn't be always-available to get
tossed into the `sure-thing standby' category,
there's nothing wrong with accepting a same-
day invitation from someone you are
interested in seeing. You don't want to give the
impression that you're not keen.

~Wait until third date to have sex ~
Advice such as don't wax your legs so you don't
let things get too far is another way of saying,
don't have sex too soon. This is the same logic
that generally goes together with `you
shouldn't have sex until the third date'. But,
now, hang on: What if you do let it go "too far"
sooner than that? Don't get too caught up in
those calculations. Instead, wait until you trust
him/her. And indulge in intercourse, only if it
is mutual.
Don't give in to pressure. If he/she is good at
heart, they'll respect your decision.

~Eat less when you are with him~
You don't want to look like a greedy glut by
ordering every third dish on the menu, do
you? While that would be weird to watch, you
don't just want to settle for a bowl of leaves
either to show him what a light eater you are.
Get over your hang up. A woman should order
whatever she wants. In case he is paying, you
may want to stay within a price range to be
polite.

~No spark, no second date~
Love at first sight usually fizzles after the
initial fire cracker. You need to be patient and
let it evolve if you want it to last. So it is
always worth going on a second date. There
are too many factors standing in the way of
seeing clearly when we first meet someone,
making it hard to be objective. Everyone has
ghosts in their closet, so we tend to stereotype
and have the tendency to stop a relationship
with potential before it starts.

-Maintain some mystery-
Trying to be mysterious instead of true to
yourself means your partner is getting to know
someone you're not. While narrating your life
story on the first date isn't a great idea,
waiting to reveal some less than flattering
details after the relationship is somewhat
solidified isn't being dishonest either. Be
natural and honest.

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